Square Dance Etiquette

Like all other forms of dancing, Square Dancing is a team-building activity. It cannot be successful or fun unless a code of manners is applied. These rules help make the dances go smoothly. Taking a moment to familiarize yourself with these rules is a surefire way to ensure you and your fellow dancers have a great experience. The Promenaders teaches, encourages, and uses these etiquette rules in our classes and dances.

"Square Dancing is Friendship Set to Music"

Cleanliness is Key

Good personal hygiene matters. Fresh breath, clean clothes, and avoiding body odor make everyone’s experience better.

Non-Smoking / Non-Alcohol

The Promenaders hosts family-friendly events. Smoking and alcohol are not part of our dances.

Arrive on Time

Give yourself time to park, get settled, and check in.

Be a Good Host

Welcome everyone—from arrival to departure. Introduce yourself, make new dancers feel included, and share a smile.

Forming Squares

• Get into Squares Quickly: Join the nearest square when music begins.
• Fill the Nearest Square: Don’t pass by a square needing dancers.
• Other Manners: Move around the hall and meet new people.

Know Your Capabilities

Dance at your level. If a tip is above your ability, it’s courteous to sit out.

Clubs Run on Volunteers - Join a Committee

Square dancing is more fun when we share the work.

• Setup / Takedown: chairs, tables, water, signs.
• Refreshments: bring or organize snacks.
• Decorations & Themes: make the hall sparkle.
• Publicity & Social Media: post flyers and share events.
• Membership & Outreach: invite friends, follow up.
• Sunshine & Care: cards, check-ins, support.
• Special Events & Fundraising: picnics and party nights.

Energy and Enthusiasm

Bring life to your dancing! Adjust if your partner is uncomfortable.

Courtesy is Mandatory

Treat others how you want to be treated.

Declining or Sitting Out

• Declining a Dance: You may politely decline.
• Sitting Out: It’s okay to rest.

Helping Others

Avoid unsolicited teaching.

Listen!

Respect the caller and MC.

Gentle Dancing

Handholds matter—be gentle.

Mistakes Happen

Stay calm if mistakes are made.

Dress Code

Wear appropriate attire for comfort and safety.

During and After the Dance

• Don’t Leave Your Partner: Escort your partner back.
• Don’t Leave Squares Early: Eight dancers are needed.
• Stay Until the End: The dance isn’t done until cleanup is finished.

Emergencies

If someone is injured, signal for help.

Appreciation

Applaud the caller and thank your fellow dancers.

Always Keep Learning

Square dancing is a lifelong journey.