Square Dance Etiquette
Like all other forms of dancing, Square Dancing is a team-building activity. It cannot be successful or fun unless a code of manners is applied. These rules help make the dances go smoothly. Taking a moment to familiarize yourself with these rules is a surefire way to ensure you and your fellow dancers have a great experience. The OPromenaders teaches, encourages, and uses these etiquette rules in our classes and dances.
"Square Dancing is Friendship Set to Music"
Cleanliness is Key
Good personal hygiene matters. Fresh breath, clean clothes, and avoiding body odor make everyone’s experience better. If in doubt, do a quick refresh!
Non-Smoking / Non-Alcohol
The Promenaders hosts family-friendly events. Smoking and alcohol are not part of our dances. Avoid anything that hinders reaction time or coordination before you dance.
Arrive on Time
Give yourself time to park, get settled, and check in. Being late may leave three other couples without a square. Please be ready when the dance begins!
Be a Good Host
Welcome everyone—from arrival to departure. Introduce yourself, make new dancers feel included, and share a smile. Friendship is square dancing’s greatest reward.
Forming Squares
- Get into Squares Quickly: Join the nearest square when music begins. Don’t make the caller beg for dancers. Raise your fingers to show how many couples are needed, and always thank everyone at the end of the tip.
- Fill the Nearest Square: Don’t pass by a square needing dancers. Avoid cliques and “set squares”—The Promenaders value fun and fellowship for all.
- Other Manners: Avoid always dancing with the same group. Move around the hall and meet new people. A stranger is just a friend you haven’t met yet!
Know Your Capabilities
Dance at your level. If a tip is above your ability, it’s courteous to sit out. You may join higher-level tips only if the square invites you.
Clubs Run on Volunteers - Join a Committee
Square dancing is more fun when we share the work. Our club is member-powered, which means we all pitch in so no one or two people carry the whole load. Even small jobs—done by many—make a big difference.
- Setup / Takedown: chairs, tables, water, signs.
- Refreshments: bring or organize snacks.
- Decorations & Themes: make the hall sparkle.
- Publicity & Social Media: post flyers and share events.
- Membership & Outreach: invite friends, follow up.
- Sunshine & Care: cards, check-ins, support.
- Special Events & Fundraising: picnics and party nights.
Energy and Enthusiasm
Bring life to your dancing! Nobody enjoys a “dead-fish” handhold or personality. Be lively, but adjust if your partner is uncomfortable. If you enjoy dancing and making others feel welcome, it will show. Gentle leadership and responsive follow make for the best experience.
Courtesy is Mandatory
Treat others how you want to be treated. Respect personal comfort zones, choose polite words, and be friendly—especially to guests and new dancers.
Declining or Sitting Out
- Declining a Dance: You may politely decline an invitation, but don’t accept another offer for the same tip.
- Sitting Out: It’s okay to rest! Watching can be valuable. However, if three couples are waiting, please be willing to step in so everyone can dance.
Helping Others
Avoid unsolicited teaching. The caller and designated Angels handle instruction. If asked, assist—but otherwise, just be in the right place at the right time.
Listen!
Respect the caller and MC. Save conversations for breaks so everyone can hear instructions and announcements.
Gentle Dancing
Handholds matter—be gentle. Offer light resistance, don’t grab or twist thumbs, and avoid being too forceful. Adapt if a dancer wears a “Do Not Spin” badge.
Mistakes Happen
Dancing is about fun! Stay calm if mistakes are made. If a square breaks down, reform and start again. Encourage, don’t criticize.
Dress Code
Wear appropriate attire for comfort and safety. Long sleeves if you perspire, minimal jewelry, and nametags to help us learn names. Themed dances may specify dress requirements.
During and After the Dance
- Don’t Leave Your Partner: Escort your partner back after each tip.
- Don’t Leave Squares Early: Eight dancers are needed to complete the set—don’t leave others stranded.
- Stay Until the End: Leaving early stresses the caller and reduces fun for others. The dance isn’t done until cleanup is finished.
Emergencies
If someone is injured, others should step back, raise hands in an arch, and signal for help. Ensure EMTs can find the location quickly.
Appreciation
Applaud the caller. Let your caller know you appreciate the countless hours they put in behind the scenes to make Square Dancing a fun and rewarding experience for everyone. Be sure to thank your fellow dancers, and remember—you’re applauding yourself too!
Always Keep Learning
Square dancing is a lifelong journey. Ask questions, practice, and enjoy improving. Chances are, others are wondering the same thing you are!